Navigating the Silent Struggle: Unravelling the Mental Health Challenges Faced by Men in the UK

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So what’s going on?

In the realm of mental health, an alarming trend has emerged in the United Kingdom, shedding light on a pressing issue that often goes unnoticed—the disproportionate prevalence of mental health problems among men, leading to higher rates of suicide. Men make up nearly 70% of suicides and it’s the biggest killer of men under 40. While mental health affects individuals of all genders, the statistics indicate that men face unique challenges that contribute to their increased vulnerability. So what are the factors contributing to men’s mental health struggle? How so we explore the importance of addressing self-sabotage, fostering effective communication, embracing vulnerability, and cultivating healthy habits to promote emotional well-being.

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The Silent Struggle:

The stigma surrounding mental health is pervasive, affecting both men and women. However, societal expectations and traditional gender norms often pressure men to conform to stoicism, strength, and independence, discouraging them from expressing vulnerability or seeking help when needed. This societal pressure can lead to a culture of silence, where men may internalize their struggles, exacerbating the impact of mental health issues. Watch this excellent video on recognising you might be depressed or suffering with your mental health by the World Health Authority (WHO) here

Understanding Self-Sabotage:

Self-sabotage is a common yet often overlooked aspect of mental health. Men may find themselves trapped in cycles of destructive behaviours or negative thought patterns, hindering their overall well-being. Identifying these self-sabotaging tendencies is crucial for breaking the cycle. Encouraging men to recognize their patterns, seek professional help, and adopt healthier coping mechanisms can be pivotal in reclaiming control over their mental health.

Watch our discussion on self sabotage here 

Communication Breakdown:

Effective communication is fundamental to mental health, yet men may struggle to express their emotions due to societal expectations. Encouraging open and honest conversations about mental health is crucial in breaking down these barriers. Friends, family, and colleagues can play an essential role by creating a supportive environment where men feel comfortable sharing their experiences without fear of judgment. Additionally, promoting mental health awareness campaigns can contribute to dismantling the stigma surrounding seeking help.

Embracing Vulnerability:

Vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but rather a testament to courage and authenticity. Men need to recognize that embracing vulnerability is an essential component of mental health. Encouraging self-reflection and creating safe spaces where men can express their feelings fosters a sense of connection and belonging, mitigating the isolation that often accompanies mental health struggles. Like any habit, it’s often easier to be communicative and vulnerable once you just start so try and admit you seek change or need to improve both to people you trust or professionals. There is great strength in this and people will admire you and support you ! Often it’s all in our minds that we are failures, will be embarrassed or somehow afraid of dropping our mask. The shadows we carry are often removed once exposed to the light of other people and our own truth.

Cultivating Healthy Habits:

Physical and mental health are intricately connected. Studies shows exercise raises dopamine and endorphins that improves mood. Adopting healthy lifestyle habits, such as regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient sleep, reducing alcohol and drugs, can significantly impact mental and mind well-being. Engaging in activities that bring joy and fulfilment, whether it be hobbies, social interactions, or mindfulness practices, can serve as powerful tools in managing stress and promoting mental resilience. Don’t fear trying new practises that reset the nervous system – like cold water therapy, saunas, breathwork, varied and different forms of regular exercise, joining men’s sharing circles and attending retreats tailored for men can really rebalance your natural tendencies to spiral into overthinking negative loops.

Conclusion:

Addressing the mental health challenges faced by men in the UK requires a multifaceted approach that encompasses societal change, open communication, and the cultivation of healthy habits. By breaking the silence surrounding mental health, challenging traditional gender norms, and fostering environments that prioritize vulnerability and support, we can pave the way for a more inclusive and compassionate society. Together, we can dismantle the barriers that contribute to the alarming rates of suicide among men and work towards a future where mental well-being knows no gender. So if you are struggling reach out to loved ones or professionals. You can find a list of UK therapists here

If you would like to discuss any aspect of your mind health and steps to improve drop Ed or Mark a line in the contact us section and we can jump on a call for an hour to discuss tailored coaching.

Tips on Parenting Teenagers and substance abuse

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Parenting can be a challenging task, especially when many of us don’t have the capability to navigate our own complex emotions and especially when we are concerned about drugs and alcohol, many of which parents have tried or used (or still do). Telling your teenage children to not drink and never try drugs would seem hypocritical if you have taken, or still take, that path. If you haven’t, then it’s a slightly different dynamic, but simply saying don’t do something seems a little out of touch when your children can join the army, drive, have sex, marry and leave school very soon.

If you’ve been open with them they might even know your past or current activities with drugs and alcohol and it does not seem right to lie to your children either. Ultimately you need to judge what is best for your family and much will depend how transparent you have been previously, your children’s current development path and how you feel your children view personal responsibility, decision making, health and other issues. Ultimately, we don’t want our children ruining their bodies and minds, which ALL substances do, despite our own misjudgements and that should be the objective for all and might mean changes of your own to set an example. Simply, if you’re life revolves around wine o’clock and the children see this perhaps it’s time for a change yourself? What examples are YOU setting?

Some guidance

Saying no to doing something will not result in the desired outcome, even if it comes from a place of love, at a time your teenager is expressing independence and feels the need to conform to peer pressures. It’s important to remember these facts when engaging and take yourself back to those confusing years before you engage. Barking instructions very seldom works and infact could backfire.

Parents generally believe alcohol is a more acceptable drug because it’s sold legally and quality is checked whereas drugs are of unknown quality and that should be the main point made to your teenagers. It’s a well known fact the personal, health and social impact of alcohol is very serious so bear that in mind also when discussing drugs and substances. Here are some tips to help you navigate this important aspect of parenting:

  1. Open and Honest Communication: Establish and maintain open lines of communication with your teenager. Encourage them to share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment. Be a good listener and avoid being overly reactive or dismissive when discussing sensitive topics like drugs.
  2. Educate Yourself: Learn about common drugs, their effects, and warning signs of drug use. Stay informed about current trends and substances that teenagers may be exposed to. This knowledge will enable you to have more meaningful conversations and address any concerns effectively.
  3. Set Clear Expectations and Boundaries: Establish clear rules and expectations regarding drug use. Make it known that drug use is unacceptable in your family because of the health risks of taking unregulated substances, criminality and the strong addictive propensity of certain drugs. Clearly communicate the consequences of breaking these rules.
  4. Foster a Supportive Environment: Create an environment where your teenager feels comfortable and supported. Encourage them to engage in activities they enjoy, build healthy relationships, and pursue positive interests. By providing a strong support system, you can help reduce the likelihood of them turning to drugs as an outlet.
  5. Be a Positive Role Model: Set a good example by practicing healthy habits and responsible behaviour. Be mindful of your own substance use and ensure you are modelling the behaviour you expect from your teenager. Remember that your actions speak louder than words. Give up your substances you expect your family not to take including alcohol.
  6. Teach Decision-Making Skills: Help your teenager develop critical thinking and decision-making skills. Encourage them to consider the consequences of their choices and evaluate potential risks. Teach them strategies for handling peer pressure and making choices aligned with their values.
  7. Monitor and Supervise: While trust is important, it’s also crucial to monitor your teenager’s activities, especially during vulnerable periods. Keep an eye on their social circle, online activities, and whereabouts. Regularly check in with them and be aware of any changes in behavior or signs of distress.
  8. Stay Connected with School and Community: Maintain communication with your teenager’s school and engage in their academic progress. Encourage participation in extracurricular activities or community programs that promote a sense of belonging and connection. These activities can provide positive alternatives to drug use.
  9. Encourage Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Teach your teenager healthy ways to manage stress, anxiety, and other emotions. Encourage them to engage in physical activity, practice relaxation techniques, or explore creative outlets. These coping strategies can reduce the likelihood of turning to drugs for relief.
  10. Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you suspect or discover that your teenager is using drugs, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Consult a healthcare professional, therapist, or addiction counselor who can provide guidance and support tailored to your specific situation.

Remember, building trust and maintaining open communication with your teenager is key. By being involved, supportive, and well-informed, you can help guide them towards making healthy choices and navigating the challenges they may face regarding drug use.

Cold Water Immersion: Exploring the Surprising Link to Dopamine Release

Introduction: Cold water immersion, also known as cold water therapy or cold showers, has gained significant attention in recent years due to its potential health benefits. While the idea of exposing oneself to icy water may seem daunting, emerging research suggests that cold water immersion can offer numerous advantages, both physical and mental. In this blog post, we will delve into the science behind cold water immersion, its effects on the body, and its intriguing relationship with dopamine—the brain’s “feel-good” neurotransmitter.

The Physiology of Cold Water Immersion: When you expose your body to cold water, a series of physiological responses take place. Initially, the cold temperature causes blood vessels in the skin to constrict, redirecting blood flow to vital organs to maintain core temperature. As a result, the body experiences a surge in heart rate, breathing rate, and metabolic activity.

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Studies on Cold Water Immersion: Several studies have examined the effects of cold water immersion on various aspects of human health. Here are a few notable findings:

  1. Improved Recovery and Reduced Muscle Soreness: Cold water immersion has been commonly used by athletes as a recovery strategy. A study published in the Journal of Science and Medicine in Sport found that cold water immersion significantly reduced muscle soreness and improved recovery following intense exercise. The cold temperature helps reduce inflammation and decrease tissue damage, allowing athletes to bounce back quicker.
  2. Enhanced Mood and Mental Well-being: Taking cold showers may have an unexpected positive impact on mental health. Research published in Medical Hypotheses suggests that exposure to cold water stimulates the sympathetic nervous system and triggers the release of endorphins, which are known to improve mood and alleviate symptoms of depression.

Dopamine and its Role in Cold Water Immersion: Dopamine is a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure, reward, motivation, and overall well-being. It plays a crucial role in the brain’s reward pathway and is linked to feelings of satisfaction and happiness. Interestingly, recent studies have explored the connection between cold water immersion and dopamine release.

  1. Increased Dopamine Receptors: A study conducted by Finnish researchers at the University of Helsinki discovered that repeated cold exposure increases the number of dopamine receptors in the brain. These receptors play a vital role in dopamine signaling and are associated with improved mood regulation.
  2. Cold Water Immersion and Dopamine Release: Cold water immersion has been found to trigger the release of dopamine in the brain. A study published in PLOS ONE showed that exposure to cold water caused a significant increase in dopamine levels in the striatum—a region of the brain involved in reward processing and motor control.

The Benefits of Dopamine Release: Dopamine release through cold water immersion offers a range of potential benefits. Increased dopamine levels may lead to improved mood, enhanced motivation, reduced stress, and increased focus and productivity. Moreover, dopamine has been associated with better cognitive function, including memory and learning capabilities.

Conclusion: Cold water immersion is a practice that has gained recognition for its potential physical and mental benefits. The release of dopamine triggered by cold water exposure may contribute to the improvement of mood, motivation, and overall well-being. While further research is necessary to fully understand the mechanisms behind this relationship, the existing evidence suggests that incorporating cold water immersion into your routine could be a refreshing way to boost your mental and physical health.

Disclaimer: Cold water immersion may not be suitable for everyone, particularly those with certain medical conditions. It is advisable to consult with a healthcare professional before engaging in any new wellness practices.

Remember, the content provided in this blog is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice.

The best nutrition for men

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The best nutrition for men, like for anyone, is a well-balanced diet that provides all the essential nutrients their bodies need to function properly. Obviously, exercise and looking after your hydration and mind health are required on top of decent nutrition. With so many illnesses related to fats and sugar and the relationship between gut health and mental health it is vital to improve your diet and nutrition.

Here are some key components of a healthy diet for men:

  1. Protein: Men generally have higher protein requirements than women due to higher muscle mass. Good sources of protein include lean meats, poultry, fish, eggs, dairy products, lentils, broccoli, quinoa, guava, reek yoghurt, hemp, chia and flaxseeds, almonds and also soya if you prefer a healthy veggie meat substitute
  2. Fruits and vegetables: These are important for providing vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, and dietary fibre. Aim for a variety of colourful fruits and vegetables to ensure a wide range of nutrients.
  3. Whole grains: Opt for whole grains such as whole wheat bread, brown rice, quinoa, and oats. These provide complex carbohydrates, fibre, and essential nutrients.
  4. Healthy fats: Include sources of healthy fats like avocados, nuts, seeds, olive oil, and fatty fish (such as salmon or sardines). These provide omega-3 fatty acids, which are beneficial for heart health.
  5. Calcium: Men need adequate calcium for strong bones and teeth. Dairy products like milk, cheese, and yogurt are good sources of calcium. If you’re lactose intolerant or avoid dairy, consider fortified plant-based alternatives like almond milk or tofu.
  6. Hydration: Staying hydrated is important for overall health. Aim to drink plenty of water throughout the day and limit sugary beverages. At least 2 litres per day and try and avoid drinking it via coffee and tea as they act as natural diuretics, which on the flip side rid your body of salt and water, reducing blood pressure, but you need to drink less caffeine and more water to stay hydrated.
  7. Limited processed foods and added sugars: Try to minimize your intake of processed foods, sugary snacks, sodas, and sugary drinks. These often provide empty calories and lack important nutrients and can lead to sugar spikes and crashes and thus unstable moods.

Remember that individual nutritional needs can vary based on factors such as age, activity level, and overall health. It’s always a good idea to consult with a healthcare professional or a registered dietitian for personalized dietary advice.

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Diet & Hydration for men

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What diet are you on at the moment?

Is your diet working for you? How are your energy levels and you mood? Do you need some inspiration? Winston writes about his personal relationship with diet and hydration.

If you are interested in your health on any level, you have almost certainly come across or tried some form of dieting. When I talk about dieting, I mean eating in a specific way with a specific goal.

Lifestyle, on the other hand, is how you live more generally speaking, and what you will discover is what I believe is more beneficial in the long term.

My journey started about 20 years ago, but I became very conscious of what I was doing around 2011. I thought I was underweight as a teenager and young adult. Many of us suffer from feelings of insecurity based on the way we look as teenagers, and young adults. You might start doing things to control your weight, your image, and general satisfaction with your body. In my case, I ate as much as I could stomach and trained the best way I knew how.

Looking back I realise that I made so many mistakes.

I ate too much. I ate the wrong foods. I trained in the wrong way. I trained too little or too much. My sleep was all over the place, I was generally naive and inconsistent. But we all have to start somewhere.

Then things started to make sense.

In my late twenties, I began looking for inspiration in the right places. Doctors, fitness experts, and people who had tried and tested what worked for them. What I realised was that there is no one rule that works for everyone, and many of the things we have been taught about nutrition since the 1940’s up until quite recently, were untrue, or not properly/fully researched.

If you start basing your efforts on research that is incomplete, you can be left feeling frustrated by lack of progress or poor results.

One example of this is, how Mark and I like to wake up at 5 am. That doesn’t work for everyone. If you do shift work for example, or you get home from your job at 1 am every day, your sleep routine will probably affect your diet.

Over a couple of years, I started to play around with my training, sleep routines, and diet. I went in with the approach that I could do any diet for 30 days without it being detrimental to my health. I learned a lot about how my body reacts to different foods, rest, and exercise.

Here is what I found out about diet and lifestyle, that I’m sure will be beneficial for you, and hopefully inspire you to take a fresh look at your current situation.

HYDRATION

Hydrate before you caffeinate (or anything else)

When you have slept for 6-9 hours, you have probably gone for at least 8-11 hours without water.

Second to air, water is the most important thing we need to survive. To put things in perspective, You can survive for 8-21 days without food, but you can only survive for 2-4 days without water.

As soon as you get out of bed, and before you do anything else, rinse your mouth, and have 1 to 2 glasses of water. Think of it as putting oil in your car, or on your bike chain. Your body just works better. Your brain and body work better when it is not dehydrated, so kick start your day as you mean to continue, with water.

If you are like me, the first thing I like is water inside, and out. So, I normally take a glass of water to the bathroom which I drink before and after I shower. This always gives me momentum for a great morning.

After that, I can judge if I am hungry or not. Normally, I’m not because of my intermittent fasting.

INTERMITTENT FASTING

After trying lots of different diets, I discovered that sugar made me really hungry. This became even most apparent when I started fasting.

During my zero carb diets (there were a couple), I found that I had less of an appetite. When I started intermittent fasting for 14-18 hours, I started eating fewer carbs and sugars for my last meal. It helped me feel less hungry in general, but especially in the morning.

Another benefit of fasting is that because I am more conscious of what I eat, I generally eat healthier. I notice on my non-fasting days, I sometimes eat relatively badly. That’s where I squeeze in the week’s unhealthy foods, oops!

Another bonus is that eating once or twice a day, requires less effort (also less time and money). Eating more nutritional food, can leave you needing less food. I know it is often more expensive to eat healthy salads, and quality foods, but I’ve found that eating higher quality and lower quantity still works out cheaper. I thought I would lose weight and that my training would be negatively effected, but it turns out to be opposite. My weight is stable, and I feel stronger at the gym on and empty stomach. Longer cardiovascular sessions can be a challenge, so I might cheat with a high carb drink or muesli bar if I can feel that my energy is low.

Intermittent fasting became easy, when it became a lifestyle rather than a diet. I am not very strict with my timing, which makes it easier to plan around it. But my partner and other friends tend to be quite strict about their 16/8 routines. There are a few smart phone apps to help you.

WHY IS FASTING IMPORTANT?

Fasting helps to cleanse the body of toxins. It also puts the body under stress in the same way that resistance training and cardiovascular training stimulates the body to grow stronger.

Later during each period of fasting your body starts to burn fat as an energy source, which is great for weight loss and balancing blood sugar levels.

After a long time of experimenting with foods, I learned what my body reacts best to in different circumstances, and how to use foods, to get the desired effect.

If I want to fast, I reduce my sugar intake up to the beginning of my fast and preferably through the whole day, however, if I am recovering from or planning to have an intense hypertrophy gym session (training with heavy weights until muscle failure), I will increase my carb intake before my high protein meals, and before and after training. I might even break my fast early for the early morning sessions if I’m feeling low on energy. There is no reason to pass out on the assault bike.

You should give at least 2-3 hours between bedtime and your last meal; also try to avoid too much water before bedtime. Maybe just a few sips before you go to bed. This is because you will sleep better if your stomach is not trying to digest food, while you are lying down. It may sound obvious, but many of us get into bad habits, of late meals.

LIFESTYLE OR DIET?

At first glance it might seem like a lot of different things to change in your life, when it comes to food, but I assure you, if you take it one step at a time, things start to fall into place, and before long, you will have created a much healthier way of eating, which fits in to your life and is easy to maintain, without too much effort.

The difference I have found with looking at it as a lifestyle change as oppose to a diet, is that diet is often associated with some kind of goal like losing a specific amount of weight or a competition on a particular date. When the goal has been reach, the motivation for the diet disappears. On the other hand, with lifestyle you are choosing to live in a particular way because it is healthy, and not because of short-term temporary goals. Lifestyle is based on habits, and once those habits become your normal way of living, you don’t have to use much energy thinking about them.

I am fortunate that my partner has a similar diet to mine, as it makes it easier when we are cooking or eating out.

I would recommend being explicit with people who might be affected by the way you eat, especially with timing, as this can be one of the more practical challenges, when living with other people.

If you do some kind of shift work, be realistic about when you can create 8 hours windows for eating either during or after work. And carry some nuts or other healthy snacks around in the beginning, as you get to know how your body reacts to the changes you make.

You can spend time reading lots of different people about your diet, but in the end, you need to try it out for yourself.

As you research more about how to take care of your health through what you eat, remember that your body and the way you live, is different to others, so you will need to experiment for yourself. You can survive most things from 30 days, so give it a shot and tell us about your experience.

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Why gratitude matters

Gratitude is fundamental to the real you

This is blog I’ve been itching to write. Metaphorically.

Why? Seven years ago I woke up to the fact that I had been constantly searching for something else, a better job title, bigger house, more stuff and I stopped. We are culture-scaped to strive for possessions. Whilst still ambitious and have goals, gratitude has bought more contentment. I enjoy the process of growth and creation, in activities, business and in life more than the end result and am grateful to have the opportunity to grow. Gratitude has become ingrained in who I am. And it helps. Why is it then that gratitude matters?

Often when you lose something you start to appreciate it. A person. Health. Friendship. Peace of mind. A good job. You become grateful for people and experiences when you have them. In the present. One starts to appreciate that one can’t wait to be happy when life will alway have challenges and dark times. As the quote goes ” You can’t see the stars without the dark”. Waiting to have something or be somewhere else to be happy is a mistake. So gratitude anchors this realisation that today you have what you have and it may not get any better than this. If it does it’s a blessing.

“The heart that gives thanks is a happy one, for we cannot feel thankful and unhappy at the same time.” – Douglas Wood

Daily Gratitude

There are a few ways to develop gratitude based mindset.

  • Every morning or evening spend 5 minutues consciously thinking about what you are grateful for. Health, people, nature, your home, your dreams, being alive.
  • Knowing you are going to die reinforces gratitide. Nobody gets out alive.
  • Have a post it note or a phone calender alarm set to remind you
  • I personally meditate and I think Gratitude, Gratitude, Gratitude as my mantra as part of my #5am club start
  • Then act on those feelings. Check in on someone who makes your life better and tell them you care. Do something for someone else without expectations. Take a walk and appreciate the beauty of the world. Plan some travel and be grateful for the opportunity. Honour your health by eating well and exercising daily.
  • Make contribution and social value part of your daily mindset and annual goals. What are you doing to help others to honour the good things you have been blessed with? Giving back comes from a realistion that what you have is given to you from the universe and can just as easily leave.
  • Learn to not take anything for granted. All good things end. Build a mindset of acceptance and gratitude will flow into you. Don’t wander around being ungrateful with a victim mindset. You’ll come across as a bellend.

“Wear gratitude like a cloak, and it will feed every corner of your life.”- Rumi

“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” – Epicurus 

As a general guide anchoring your happiness around the outcome of materialism won’t make you happy. This is because your happiness and contentment generally comes from the following –

  1. Achieving goals that have purpose to you
  2. Helping others where your skills matter
  3. Being validated / feeling good about your contribition to the world
  4. Loving yourself with self care and healthy boundaries
  5. Co elevation with amazing people who value you. See our blog on co-elevation here
  6. Removing toxic people
  7. Make friends with change (Ram Dass)
  8. Gratitude for the now.

Idiot caveat – Yes I know we would all rather be rich than poor but that’s not really the point. Following the above reinforces your drivers to be successful across your life and not just having a large car with a pointless number plate. Money is good but it’s not the end desirable. Career or business success is about the growth journey and creating something useful you can be proud of.  Those seeking only material goods for the sake of it typically crash and burn in my experience.

“When it comes to life the critical thing is whether you take things for granted or take them with gratitude.” – GK Chesterton

So, start today, think a little about who and what you value and repeat daily

Before long it will become part of THE REAL YOU

Ed is a co-founder of Blue Mind. He is a Start up business coach. Business owner. Father and speaker on men’s personal development, the sharing economy and start ups and can be contacted at edward@bluemindapproach.com

“This blog is dedicated to my Nan who used to say to me daily “Mustn’t grumble. Be thankful for what you have”. Took me a while to remember but go there eventually”

Daily training is a mindset

Why you should train

A letter written to the U-16 boy’s rugby team pre season and mid pandemic 2020

“Firstly, congratulations on deciding to play rugby. It’s the greatest team sport in the world. You’ll learn more from playing rugby in your life than almost anything else, meet the finest people, visit the best places to play and watch it, get jobs through it and make memories soccer players can only dream about ;0).

Teamwork, victory, defeat, pain, fun, drama, resilience, motivation, friendship. The rugby family will look after you if you look after it.

Your season starts soon. Here are some thoughts.

Well done for pre-season. Well done for attending on Wednesday night and keeping fit during lockdown. Well done for stepping up to train. Now it’s time to raise our game…….

Keeping fit will enable you as a player and a team to not just have a good season but have the best season you can possibly have regardless of the skills and effort of the team or the opposition.  You can never leave a pitch not feeling satisfied if you have trained hard and left everything on the pitch.


Why should you train daily?

You have one body in your life and it’s capable of incredible things. Don’t be that middle aged guy in the pub with a beer belly. Don’t let your teammates down as you puff around the park to the breakdown, don’t wince in the tackle, but be that guy that gets back to help out your full back, hits hard and low and pushes for that line with 5 mins to go or chases down that kick when everyone else has their hands on their knees waiting for the final whistle.

So forget Wednesday. This about Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Everyday is about fitness, about Saturday, the whole season and it’s about the self discipline you need to move through life as the best version of yourself. Fit, strong, resilient and part of a team that all share the same motivations, values and ethos. You train for yourself, you train for your life and you train for your team.

So, starting asap, try to build a minimum of 30 mins of exercise into each day including

  • Weights and strength training 1-2 times a week (use whatever you have in the garden or buy some barbells and dumbbells) say do it Monday and Thursday for reps for 30 minutes each time minimum. Read this blog on why weightlifting is good for you.

  • One slow jog ( or walk) for at least 5km per week + (Weekend with the family maybe)

  • 1 session of 30 mins of 20 metre shuttle run (Basically beep tests) starting slowly and ending at full speed until failure. This will build speed and endurance. Take a 5 min break between sets (Monday is best for this)

  • Wednesday night training – now 90 mins long from next week

  • Do some Yoga or deep stretching for 15 mins daily at any time

  • Try and find another sport like tennis, cycling or swimming and do once a week (even play football if you must.

  • Eat as well as you can and get your sleep in

Once you start thinking of training as part of your daily routine it will simply become a way of life, you’ll feel better, look better, your confidence will grow and most importantly even when you don’t win or suffer setbacks you’ll be satisfied that you and the team gave it 110%. It’s important to build functional fitness and that’s why varying your activity is so crucial in life.

That’s why training and rugby is for life.

Even when you stop playing the character remains.

Good luck !”

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